Every death is unique and we need to remove the words “ought to“ or “should” when we begin talking about how families deal with death, the funeral and the grieving process. Being honest with yourself and your family’s needs as they move through the grieving process is a key in embracing the loss of a loved one. These are just two of the themes that the Reverend James Nutter discusses in this moving 7- minute video, that will give comfort to many who are dealing with the stresses around death and the funeral.